| "And that's a wrap" |
| "I am so out of here" |
| "Don't bother looking for me tonight, I'll be staying out with the boys!" |
Yes, sorry, it’s another installment in the long series of riding
adventures with Dusty. I’ll preface this by saying that she hasn’t been
ridden for almost two weeks due to obligations and life in general. Our
herd has also refused to come up at dinnertime to be taken into the barn and
fed. I’m attributing this to the cooler weather and decline in the fly
population. In my opinion, the herd now thinks they are feral.
Thank goodness there is always hay in the hay nets on the fence just in case
foraging at night becomes too much of an inconvenience. Then, too, there
are three run in sheds for shelter. Truthfully, I don’t care if they stay
out all the time; it’s a lot less clean up in the stalls.
On to Dusty... After she was groomed and tacked we headed to the
indoor. I had planned to take her on a small trail ride, but we had
intermittent drizzle and rain. We usually take a hand walk around the
perimeter to fill in the holes that the foxes have been digging in their
never-ending search for mice and critters. There was a mound by the wall,
which is out of character for them. Since I had Dusty, I called my
daughter over to investigate. When she kicked it with her foot she
unearthed half of a deer leg. So that explains all the coyote yowling the
last week. I’m sure they killed a deer and the foxes stole part of
it. How nice for them that we use a salt compound in the arena to keep
the dust down; now the leg would be cured and keep forever. Not!
We disposed of it.
On to Dusty and the mounting block... I could tell by the way
she was acting from the start this wasn’t going to be an easy day, and
unfortunately I was right. After positioning her, I managed the second
step before she deliberately swung her butt out and gave me the "make me
do it" look. Okay, I was ready for that. I attached the longe
to her halter and she did some longeing at the trot to the left. Let’s
try it again, Dusty mare. To which she replied, “I don’t think so,” and
swung her butt away from the block again. Back to trotting on the longe
to the right for a while and see if the second time’s the charm. It was,
and I got on. She actually stood for me until I cued the walk. I’m
well aware that she hasn’t forgotten what she’s learned about mounting, but she
chooses to challenge me when she feels like she can.
I was immediately treated to some head flipping and her trying to pull
the reins from my hands. This was unacceptable, so, with a gentle
inside flexion, using the inside indirect rein behind the wither for the
bend, I fixed my outside hand directly back to my hip, elbow at my side in
a direct rein of opposition, and just closed my fingers. If she wanted to
pull then she would be pulling against herself and when she accepted that and
realized if she didn’t pull, things were more comfortable for her. Being
the smart mare she is she stopped challenging after a while at the walk.
We worked on what I described in my Establish Success post, and then proceeded to
trot when I thought she was willing to behave. We had some moments where
we needed to half halt to slow down, but all in all once she decided to
cooperate it wasn’t that bad a ride.
I’ve never ridden a horse in all my years like her. She is smart
with an attitude and when she sets her mind to not behave it is a true test of
wills. Instead of getting angry or frustrated I’ve found it best to adopt
the attitude of being patient, insistent and consistent when dealing with her
moods. She's opinionated and not a horse you can dictate to or pick a
fight with; you definitely have to set her up with a right and a
wrong choice, and let her get to a place where the right choice was HER idea.
It takes time, and patience, trial and error. But, we're figuring
it out... slowly. Maybe someday she will realize it can be fun for both
of us if she’ll just give in a little.
Until next time
Quote for Today
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Every time you ride, your either teaching or un-teaching your horse.
- Gordon Wright |